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What I See From Here

Monday, February 8th, 2010

I’m camped out at the dining room table tapping away on the lap top and contemplating whether or not I should go to bed.  From where I’m sitting, I look up and stare ahead into the kitchen. Stuck to the side of the refrigerator is a “project” that my 6 year old son brought home just before school let out for winter break.

The assignment: Gingerbread Man Decorating. They were given a kraft paper cut out of a Gingerbread Man, sent home in their backpacks with instructions to decorate the confection however they saw fit.

This was my son’s:

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That’s right. It’s a ninja.

Coolest. kid. ever.

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Just Me & You, Kid

Friday, February 5th, 2010

The Girl is headed out later this afternoon to go camping with her Girl Scout troop so it looks like it’ll be just me and The Boy for the weekend.  I love it when I have large chunks of time to spend with just one of the kids while the other is away having fun on their own.  It lets me concentrate on that one little being and not feel guilty that I may be ignoring the other.

I’ll let him pick where we eat dinner tonight, almost certain that he will pick McDonald’s.  He’s growing up so fast and I know that the days where he’ll want to spend time with me hanging out and putzing around are going to soon run short.  But for now I’ll relish in his hugs and sticky face kisses.

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To Do List

Sunday, December 6th, 2009

Get through Gainesville Christmas Festival week

Survive Christmas

Survive getting the kids’ report cards

Get an oil change & maintenance for the van

Finish 9 loads of laundry

Prepare healthier meals.

Find a place to put drums for Rock Band

Prevent cat flatulence

Get ready for staycation the week after Christmas

Save $$ for safety patrol trip to DC

Save $$ to prepay summer day camp (discount!)

Saving $$ to pay for sleep-away camp

Save $$ for a down payment on a home

Find the right home

Get out of this apartment

Get into my size 10 jeans

Get more time in the gym

Figure out how to carry less in my purse

Figure out how to get the kids to listen the FIRST time.

Find missing shot records.

Fold 9 loads of laundry.

Spend more time doing nothing.

Re-learn song to sing in church in a few weeks.

Find black flats before Thursday night.

Go to bed before 10:30 p.m. 3 out of 5 weeknights.

Remember to pack a snack each school day for E-Dubya.

Remind J-Dubya to finish her homework.

Scoop the cat box.

Pray.

Schedule dentist appointment.

Schedule eye exam.

Finish book that was started 5 months ago.

Help plan Sunday School class Christmas party.

Email snack schedule to Sunday School members (don’t forget this time!)

Shave legs.

Decide whether or not to send Christmas cards, preferably before Dec. 22nd.

Pack bag for the gym in the morning.

Cuddle with E-Dubya.

Pass out from sheer exhaustion.

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I Miss Them Most

Thursday, August 27th, 2009

When it’s the first day of school.   When he gets a boo boo.  When she wants to talk for hours and hours.  When he wants to say his nightly prayers.  When there are cupcakes to be frosted.  When a new movie shows up from Netflix.  When I really need a hug.  When the house is clean.  When I’m anxious to go to the pool.  When there are fresh bagels in the house and a block of cream cheese with no finger prints on it.  When ice cream is on sale, buy one get one free.  When I’ve had a r0ugh day.

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Mark It Off

Sunday, July 12th, 2009

rainCross it off my list.  Because tonight, I danced in the rain.

The kids were down the street playing with friends and I had been cutting grass in the back yard when I felt the first droplets.  I was able to move the mower under cover just as the proverbial bottom fell out of the huge black cloud directly above my house.  I walked around to the front yard to greet the kids as they ran home to take cover in the garage.  We put the various assortment of skateboards and scooters away and then sought refuge inside where it was dry.

The Boy went to his room to watch some television as The Girl and I stepped back out onto the front porch to watch the rain.  There was no gradual build up of puddles and streams of water – the rain was coming down so hard and so fast, the streets were already beginning to flood.  The rain ran over the edge of the roof creating a curtain of water for The Girl to reach out and tickle with her fingertips.  She began to cup handfuls of the runoff water to fling back at me as we both shrieked in laughter. 

She mostly expected me to scold her, “stop that!”  What she didn’t expect was for me to wrap my arms around her in a bear hug and drag her out to the middle of the front lawn to play in the rain.  We ran to the front door to holler for The Boy to join us.  A brief moment of confusion crossed over him before he realized we were seriously playing in.the.rain. 

We sang and we danced.  We laughed and we splashed.  We joined hands and spun in circles.  We lifted our faces to the sky and caught raindrops on our tongues.  And we wrapped it up with a group hug.  Tonight, we created a memory.

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